Healthy Relationships in a World of Trump vs. Hillary
By Leslie Ragsdale Fisk, of South Carolina Legal Services
With news reports crammed with hate crimes, bullying, riots, and terrorism, why are we surprised that people hurt their family members? Even the 2016 presidential election is being called the most divisive in history. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. What better way to fix the angst in our world than to start at home? This blog post will discuss ways to have a healthier relationship with your significant other, how to teach your children to have healthy relationships, and how to encourage your clients to have healthy relationships.
Everyone is going to encounter disagreements with others. If you cannot peacefully resolve disagreements with the people you love, how can you expect to peacefully resolve disagreements with those who may have a different religion, race, sexuality, or political view? South Carolina has consistently ranked among the worst states for the numbers of women killed by men. The Violence Policy Reports are released every Fall and rank the states according to the numbers of women killed by men, per capita. This year’s report, which was released on September 20th, lists South Carolina as #5 in the nation for the number of women killed by men. Violence Policy Center, When Men Murder Women: An Analysis of 2014 Homicide Data. Sadly, this is quite an improvement.
2013 Report: 1st
2104 Report: 2nd
2015 Report: 1st
2016 Report: 5th
Why in our State, do so many people kill the people they love the most? Governor Haley developed a Domestic Violence Task force in 2015. The task force has utilized surveys, data, public hearings, and personal testimonies from Survivors to discover the answers and solutions to our shameful problem. Government officials, advocates, and law enforcement are implementing systematic changes. But real change must occur in homes as well.
The short answer to why men kill more women in South Carolina has to do with traditional gender roles, gun violence, alcohol abuse, and a history of keeping family matters private. But even in the states that have ranked far better than we have, there is vitriol among the citizens. Violence is bad for our children, our health, and our economy. How can we improve?
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